I am beginning to feel that all hope is lost and that it will never go away. The guilt I feel is horrible but I just can’t seem to stop. I’m afraid that this will never go away. Have I ruined my life forever? Or is there still hope?
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Thanks for sharing your difficult question with me. I think with this issue it’s important to put it in the right perspective. Don’t make it a bigger deal than what it is. Because you Look at porn it’s not the end of the world and it it most likely won’t ruin your life.
Are there better ways to spend your time? Of course, but looking at porn is not some huge, unforgivable sin like some in the church would have you believe. What’s more important is how you treat your friends, family, and those you come in contact with. Looking at porn is not any worse than anything else. Don’t give it too much importance or power.
Secondly, figure out what porn is doing for you. In other words what are you using porn to escape from or what void are you trying to fill with it. Often things we’re addicted to are things we use to self medicated, avoid the truth, or exert some sort of power or control in our lives.
Once you figure out this then you can take steps to meet that need in your life in more constructive ways. You’re life isn’t ruined and there is hope to break an addiction to porn. Just cut yourself some slack, put it in the right perspective and grow to understand yourself better.
Also check out this book that teaches you how to break an addiction to porn. It talks about the above steps in a lot more detail.