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Should I Move to Get a Job and Leave my Spouse?

Should I Move to Get a Job and Leave my Spouse?

I don’t know what to do. I live with my fiance Tom and his parents, and the two of us are unemployed, and his parents are falling further and further in debt trying to support us. We’ve been trying very hard to get jobs, but have had no luck. I am so worried about my [...]

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Should I Know My Partner’s Past Sex Life?

Should I Know My Partner's Past Sex Life?

I am dating a wonderful woman, who enjoys writing as a hobby. I love to read her work and recently, she shared a collection of short stories of her thoughts on sex and her sexual past. They aren’t erotic, but will detail her desires for men and what she has done with them. After a [...]

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I’m Miserable Without Girlfriend

I'm Miserable Without Girlfriend

My history with this girl goes over 2 years, she liked me for 2 years and would text me everyday even when I didn’t like her, but then eventually I started to fall for her and we ended up in a relationship together. We went out the entire summer and 2 months after. So ontop [...]

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I Lost the Girl I love Forever

I  Lost the Girl I love Forever

So I was with this girl for around 4-5 months we broke up and ended up somewhat back together for another 4-5 months. She loved me more than anything, but I wasn’t really accepting of myself as being gay, which caused me to push her away and end our relationship. I get denying to myself [...]

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I’m Drifting Away From God

I'm Drifting Away From God

Im a 23 year old in my last year of med school in India. My dad is an atheist and mom is a sunday Christian. I didnt grow up going to church on sundays or being part of a congregation. Although I’ve always believed in God because, its hard to explain, but I sort of [...]

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Should I Keep Trying to Win Her Back?

Should I Keep Trying to Win Her Back?

I’m currently 24 and she is 24 also. We have been on a trip to Europe December last year and after that we moved interstate. But ever since we moved, we started to fight alot. We ended up breaking up 1 month ago. I am still deeply in love with her, but I think I [...]

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My Boyfriend Doesn’t Let Me Talk To Other Boys

My Boyfriend Doesn't Let Me Talk To Other Boys

HI I am 23 with a Salvadorian culture and my boyfriend is 21 born in egypt-christian coptic. He and I have been dating for 10 months and so far our relationship is good when it doesnt deal with me talking to guys. Basically I feel like a muslim that I cant talk or look at [...]

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Christian Dating a Non-Christian

Christian Dating a Non-Christian

Let me first of all say this, I am a non-christian. I do not judge nor push my beliefs on others. I believe everyone should have the right to believe in what they want. I have been brought up to believe for myself and not let society teach me right from wrong. I am not [...]

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My Dad Doesn’t Approve of My Fiance’

My Dad Doesn't Approve of My Fiance'

I am 25 and He is 31.I completed the university two years ago and he in 2006.We have been in a relationship for the past 3 yrs. He fits into the kind of man I want as my husband. However I need your advice on some challenges we are facing. I introduced him to my [...]

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Should I Keep My Niece Away From My Children?

Should I Keep My Niece Away From My Children?

I have been married for 17 years. I have three children (12, 10, and 9). My husband is not a Christian, nor is his family. My husband comes from a rough family with a lot of relatives being arrested, in jail, involved in drugs, and several teenage pregnancies. I was raised in a Christian home [...]

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