Archive for the Abuse Category
Emotional Abuse, Financial Dependent, and Afraid to Let Go
My boyfriend has always been emotionally abusive, but lately it is getting out of control. He won’t admit he has a problem since everything is my fault. Because of this I have decided to get out. I’m having trouble for 2 reasons. 1. He has been fully financially supporting me and my kids for 2 [...]
Have I Forgiven My Abusive Mom?
I have been suffering with unforgiveness toward my mom, all of my life. How do I know if I have truly forgiven her? As children, me and my siblings were verbally, emotionally, and physically abused by her. As an adult, it has taken many years to get past the hurt, but she is a Christian [...]
My Dad Hits My Mom
My parents fight all the time, my dad is also very abusive, he’s been beating my mom for as long as I’ve known. He used to beat my brothers and I too. He hasnt exactly “hit” us for a while now but he does curse at us frequently. He has extreme anger issues and can [...]
I’m Pushing my Boyfriend Away
Well basically I am pushing my boyfriend further and further away from me by my angry, controlling, needy and clingy behaviour. I love him so much but i just cant seem to stop. I’ve talked to him about it but he doesnt seem to want to help me and I understand that. I got bullied [...]
My Fiancee Verbally and Physically Abuses Me
Hi, I’m 19 and have been with my fiancee for nearly 2 years, we have just had our engagement party and he has moved in with me and my family. He is over-protective and always paranoid and jealous at everything I do. He hits me all the time and pins me down and head buts [...]
My Parents Hate Me
I am 16. My mum used to say that I was the worst thing that could happen to anyone. And then she always scolded me. Ever since I can remember. I was always a depressed person. People as in my friends say that am good but my mind refuses to believe it because I was [...]
Emotional Abuse or Insanity?
There is a lot involved here, so I’ll try to keep it short. I’ve been getting deeper in this for so long, I don’t know what to think or do. I have been married for 12 years, and it has plunged back and forth from the extremes of good to bad so many times. He [...]
Why Do I Choose the Wrong Guys?
I need help. I keep letting guy’s take control of my life, when they don’t get what they want, they have a fit then I give in. How can I stop this from happening? I have been in violent relationships before and I’m scared. -Nina Dear Nina, Thanks for writing and I think many woman [...]
Best friend Being Both Verbally and Physically Abused
My best friend lives only with her mom, she’s never met her dad before. I fear she’s being abused by her mom. Everyday for every second she’s around her mom she gets screamed at. When were at school I’ve noticed that she’s always going to the bathroom (to cry), she’s not as social (laughing and [...]
My Cousin Sexually Abused Me
I know that this whole thing goes against me telling someone about what my cousin did since I promised not to, but I don’t care anymore. What he did has ruined my life and I don’t know any way to get rid of the stress over it. I was about 7 and he was about [...]
