Girlfriend Dumped Me Now She Wants Me Back.
Me and my ex-girlfriend dated for about 5 months. She ended up dumping me for somebody else.
As you can imagine that is never easy on anyone, but I digress. The other night she called me and said she made a big mistake and that she didn’t want to be with him and she wanted to be with me.
I have severe trust issues from past relationships and this didn’t help those issues at all.
I want to take her back because I still have feelings for her but I don’t want to take her back at the same time for fear of this happening again.
Should I give her another chance or move on and forget about it?
-Matt
Dear Matt,
I think you should move on. She obviously doesn’t know what she wants. She could do the same thing all over again the next time she meets another guys she’s attracted to.
If a few month down the road she is still dead set on having you, her feelings may be genuine, but you should really let time prove it.
Don’t let anyone treat you like your second best.
Kind regards,
Ted
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