You should give the new guy a try. I know that your ex did wrong by you and the time that you two shared together was a “bitter/sweet” past but you have to rememver that not all men are like that. You analysing the new guy and picking out his flaws is ok but you need to just look past that and let the good over power the bad and you will find that he might be what you been waiting for. If time hasn’t fixed your heart break from your ex then you just need some spiritual healing! I hope it works out for you!