I Want to Be a Transexual

By | February 15, 2011

I’m a 16 year old girl that needs help. I have been thinking about becoming a transsexual for about 2 years now and I don’t know how to tell my parents. They are strong believers in God. I have been to about 10 sites before asking for help and no one wants to help me. I have tried to cut myself and I did. I don’t want to hurt my self any longer I need help.

-Converse12

Dear Converse12,

Thanks for sharing what must be a very difficult situation with me. I’m sure that if your wanting to be a transsexual that for many years you have felt like a boy trapped in a female’s body (transgender). In the past psychologists would seek to correct this problem with therapy, but as we have come to understand this subject more, we have realized that this condition can’t be fixed nor does it need to be.

For whatever reason, whether this condition happens before birth or just after, a transgender has a completely different personality to what their gender would suggest on the outside. It’s important to help teens like yourself understand that they aren’t defective, but just one of the many expressions of how all humans are different from each other. Accept youself for the beautiful person you are and learn to approach the world how you feel on the inside led to approach it.

Telling your parents will be difficult and if they are religious then all the more so. Before you tell them, you need a support system in place so you can deal with the aftermath. Do you have a school counselor you could talk to? Good friends that love and accept you the way you are? Here’s a link to an teen transexual online support group and online resources that will help. Once you feel strong, confident, and supported, then tell your parents but not before.

Above all else know that you are loved by God just the way you are and he doesn’t expect you to be anything other than yourself. You are his creation, beautiful and perfect in his eyes. I pray all the best for you and please keep me informed of your situation in the comments below this post. I’m here to help.

Kind regards,

Ted

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4 thoughts on “I Want to Be a Transexual

  1. anooo

    Being transgender is NOT a matter of CHOICE maybe thats y noone wants to help because u say u WANT TO BECOME a transexual..and noone really just wakes up one day and says “hmmm today i want to be a transexual”..it takes ALOT more then that..u need to educate urself about what being transgender really is..

  2. nikki storm

    I LOVED WHAT YOU TOLD CONVERSE 12 AS A TRANSGENDER FOR OVER28 YEARS I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW. YOU HANDLED IT WELL. I remember the time when i started the transition and it was difficult as to tell the parents. was hard but you Should always remember this everyone is loved by their parents murders even so why not transgendered. your parents will never stop loving you. as for God, he created us. and he is MADE OF PURE LOVE, and Send JESUS CHRIST TO DIE ON THE CROSS TO SHOW US JUST HOW MUCH. JESUS LOVES YOU AS WELL HE PAID FOR US TO ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM. AS FOR US EUNUCHS. WE ARE MENTIONED A FEW TIMES. READ ISAIH 56 AND JESUS MENTIOND US EUNUCHS BEING BORN THAT WAY. AND BEING MADE THAT WAY BY MEN, AND FOR THE SAKE OF REASONS.I HONESLY DON’T REMEMBER BUT IT IS IN MATHEW. SO WE ARE LOVED, MORE THEN YOU KNOW. GOD KNOWS EVERYTHING IF THAT WAS THE CASE HE WOULD HAVE NEVER CREATED US., BUT YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT THEIR ARE WICKED IN EVERYTHING. WHEN GOD SAID IN LEVITICUS 20:13 IF A AND IS A MAN ALSO LIE WITH MANKIND, AS HE LIETH WITH A WOMAN, BOTH OF THEM HAVE COMMITTED AN ABOMINATION. THEY SHALL SURELY BE PUT TO DEATH: THEIR BLOOD SHALL BE UPON THEM. THIS SOUNDS TO ME THAT IF MAN MEANING HUMAN SLEEPS WITH MANKING MEANING MEN WHILE HES SLEEPING WITH WOMEN HAS DONE COMMITED A DISTASTFUL ACT. HES TELLING THEM DON’T BE BISEXUAL DON’T MOVE MALE TO FEMALE THAT IS THE SIN. IF YOUR GAY BE GAY IF YOU LEZ BE LEZ. IF YOUR TRANS BE TRANS. READIT CAREFULLY AND IT WILL MAKE MUCH MORE SENSE TO YOU . … I’M NOT PUTTING WORDS IN GODS MOUTH BUT THIS IS WHAT I GET OUT OF IT.

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