I’m with a guy who is married and has two kids. we have been together for 7 months and I want more for the relationship and he says he is not going to leave his kids..that he would leave his wife for me.
What can I do to help him figure something out, or what can I do to help myself. I’m in love.
Thanks for sharing your situation with me and I think most women in your shoes have found nothing but heartache in similar situations to yours.
The best thing you can do for yourself and for this guy is to walk away and don’t look back. I know you love this guy, but he is more or less using you for sex. He has his wife and family to do life wife, but he just comes calling when he wants sex. Am I right?
Most of the time the guy never leaves the wife and just strings the mistress along. Don’t waste anymore of your time and love on this guy, he’s not available and it’s never a good thing to play a part in breaking up a marriage especially when there are innocent kids involved.
Find a guy that is available and who will love just you as well as share his life with you. You deserve the best and this isn’t it. Only heartache and drama will result from staying in this situation.