Prostitution to Help Ex-boyfriend Save His House?
My ex- boyfriend is really having money problems.. I still really love him and he feels pretty much alone like he has no one. He is over 18 and he got in trouble for being with me, and lost his job. He is on the edge of losing his house he tries to pretend everything is okay, when its clearly not. No one will hire him and no one will hire me for my age..
And one of my friends told me they know a guy who will pay a lot of money for just ten minutes of sex. I know it’s crazy, disgusting, and shameful. But it feels like there isn’t much of a choice left. My ex-boyfriend doesn’t know I’m even thinking about this. But there isn’t much time left before there’s nothing I can possibly do.
I realize the guy will probably beat me, do things against my will, and a possibility of diving me STDS. I’m stuck between Right and wrong.. And I can’t think of all that many options left before next week.
-LeAnne
Dear LeAnne,
You are worth more than any house payment and the ultimate price for choosing to do this could cost you everything. Don’t do this. If he loses his house that would be awful, yes, but not as awful as you forever losing your self-respect and dignity.
I think your ex-boyfriend would feel the same way and would never want you to make such a senseless sacrifice. If you’re hoping to get back together with him, He may not even want you after you’ve given yourself to this sleaze ball either.
Do the right thing and make wise choices for your future.
Ted
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Hello LeAnne,
Sometimes choices is just harder than others, but sometimes the hard choices in life are a better choice than the easy way out. It is hard to loose your house, but you still have family that can possibly help you out and there are shelters and support groups that will help you get on track. Just go out and try to find all of the resources that you can and go from there. Do not do this because it will really mess up your life.
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